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遇急事要缓,遇大事要静,遇难事要变,遇顺事要敛

<section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-from-tpl="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: sans-serif;">生活中,很多人遇事时便沉不住气。</span></section><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">但也有人“泰山崩于前而面不改色”,在危机关头,用清醒的头脑想出办法,来解决当下困境。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">其实,一个人遇事的第一反应里,藏着他成长过程中所积累的学识、见识、品格和修养。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">如何处理、解决问题,最能看出一个人的气度和胸襟,见识和格局。&nbsp; &nbsp;</p><p><br/></p><section data-id="91610" data-tools="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section data-width="100%" hm_fix="356:400" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section data-id="86438" data-tools="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin: 10px 8px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 14.4px;"><section style="padding-top: 0.5em;padding-right: 0.2em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;"><section style="padding: 3px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 3em;height: 3em;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);border-radius: 100%;"><section style="outline: 0px;width: 35.1875px;height: 35.1875px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);font-size: 25.92px;line-height: 1.4;background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 20px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">01</strong></span></section></section><section style="margin-left: -0.5em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 6px;height: 6px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);overflow: hidden;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-top: -0.22em;margin-left: 0.1em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 3px;height: 3px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);overflow: hidden;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br/></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;white-space: normal;letter-spacing: 0px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 1.75;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: left;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);line-height: 1.75;">遇急事要“缓”</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;"><br/></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">《格言联璧》中说:“处难处之事愈宜宽,处难处之人愈宜厚,处至急之事愈宜缓。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">《弟子规》也说:“事勿忙,忙多错。”急事,总是给人压力,乱人心智。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">缓,是先缓平心态,认真观察,理清思路,确定方案,是给之后行动的准备时机,以达到事半功倍之效。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">遇到急事,如果心浮气躁,急于求成,往往会出错。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">清代周容在他的《春涵堂集》中,记录了一个这样的故事。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">一年冬天,周容想从附近的河港进入县城,吩咐小童用木板夹捆扎了一大摞书籍跟随。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">天色渐晚,太阳就要落山,望望县城还有大概两里路。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">他问摆渡人:“城门关闭前,还来得及吗?”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">摆渡人仔细打量了一下书童答:“慢慢走,尚可;急忙走,就关上了。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">周容听了认为摆渡人是在戏耍他们,便与书童快步前行。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">走到半路,小童摔了一跤,绳子断了,书籍也散了一地,等到把书整理捆扎好,前方的城门已经紧紧关闭。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">周容在文后自评:“天下事以自急自败!”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">“事缓则圆,急难成效。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">与其忙乱中出错,莫不如缓下来慢慢做好。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">遇到急事时缓一缓,给自己一个做事的心情和环境,然后,沉浸于此,忘我工作,往往可以达到事半功倍的效果。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;">当心态和行动都稳稳的,终会圆满。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;"><br/></strong></p><p><br/></p><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="image"><section style="text-align:center;" mpa-from-tpl="t"></section></section><section data-id="91610" data-tools="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section data-width="100%" hm_fix="356:400" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section data-id="86438" data-tools="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin: 10px 8px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 14.4px;"><section style="padding-top: 0.5em;padding-right: 0.2em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;"><section style="padding: 3px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 3em;height: 3em;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);border-radius: 100%;"><section style="outline: 0px;width: 35.1875px;height: 35.1875px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);font-size: 25.92px;line-height: 1.4;background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 20px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">02</strong></span></section></section><section style="margin-left: -0.5em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 6px;height: 6px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);overflow: hidden;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-top: -0.22em;margin-left: 0.1em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 3px;height: 3px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);overflow: hidden;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br/></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;white-space: normal;letter-spacing: 0px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 1.75;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: left;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);line-height: 1.75;">遇大事要“静”</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;"><br/></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">《道德经》说:“静为躁君。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">“静”能克服人身上的急躁之气。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">守静,就是一个人磨砺意志,修身养性的基础。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">生活中,我们常常会遇到很多无法预测的突发状况。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">遇事越是着急,头脑就会越混乱,就越容易把事情搞砸。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">人生的很多智慧,往往都藏在沉稳与冷静里。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">读杨绛先生的《我们仨》,对她的一句“不要紧”印象深刻。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">家里门轴坏了,关不上门,她笑着说“不要紧”。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">钱钟书头上长了个疥疮,心情烦躁,她安慰道“不要紧”。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">丈夫每每遇到郁闷的事情,她都会温柔地劝道“不要紧”。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">她一生平静从容,不管遇到什么事,似乎从来都不曾慌乱过。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">简单的“不要紧”三个字背后,藏着的是杨绛“静心求稳”的处世哲学。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">在临事之时,能够像没事时那样泰然自若,使种种忧虑平静下来,那么已经发生的事情也会自然消失。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;">沉静才能谋定,谋定才能干事,干事才能成事。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;"><br/></strong></p><p><br/></p><section 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style="outline: 0px;width: 35.1875px;height: 35.1875px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);font-size: 25.92px;line-height: 1.4;background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 20px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">03</strong></span></section></section><section style="margin-left: -0.5em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 6px;height: 6px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);overflow: hidden;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-top: -0.22em;margin-left: 0.1em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 3px;height: 3px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);overflow: hidden;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br/></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;white-space: normal;letter-spacing: 0px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 1.75;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: left;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);line-height: 1.75;">遇难事要“变”</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;"><br/></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">《易经》有云:“曲成万物而不遗。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">这世间万物,往往很多都是迂回曲折、循环往复的。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">人生在世,我们也总会遇见许多无法解决的难事。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">遇到困难时,如果不及时转变思维,会很容易陷在牛角尖里,无法自拔。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">“山不过来我过去”,遇到困难时,懂得变通,给思维转个弯,往往就可以解决难题。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">人生就像一次打井的过程。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">倘若在一个地方总打不出水来,你还执着地坚持继续打,那么只会浪费更多时间和精力,到最后只是徒劳无功。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">及时变通,冷静分析,寻找更容易出水的地方打井,方能觅得清澈的泉水。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">宋朝李觐说:“救弊之术,莫大乎通变。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">江河因为善于转弯,所以才会流向远方;有智慧的人,善于转变思维,借助外力,化解难度,问题就会迎刃而解。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;">关键时刻,困难时需要变的,恰恰是我们的思维。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;"><br/></strong></p><p><br/></p><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="image"><section style="text-align:center;" mpa-from-tpl="t"></section></section><section data-id="91610" data-tools="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section data-width="100%" hm_fix="356:400" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section data-id="86438" data-tools="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin: 10px 8px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;font-size: 14.4px;"><section style="padding-top: 0.5em;padding-right: 0.2em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;"><section style="padding: 3px;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 3em;height: 3em;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);border-radius: 100%;"><section style="outline: 0px;width: 35.1875px;height: 35.1875px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);font-size: 25.92px;line-height: 1.4;background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 20px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">04</strong></span></section></section><section style="margin-left: -0.5em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 6px;height: 6px;border-radius: 100%;color: rgb(254, 254, 254);background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);overflow: hidden;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-top: -0.22em;margin-left: 0.1em;outline: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 3px;height: 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17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;"><br/></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">孔子有一句话,“君子不自大其事,不自尚其功。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">不把自己看得太重,是一种修养,是心态上的一种成熟。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">“后定有来者,前亦仿古人。时时省吾身,定为人上人。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">山外有山,人外有人。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">格局大的人,越在“得意”时,越是内敛。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">演员陈道明饱读诗书,一身正气,季羡林盛赞他的学问,钱钟书与他结为忘年之交。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">在人人自称“老师”的环境中,陈道明始终以“戏子”自居,他说:“演员就是我的职业,我就是一个‘戏子’。做人做事不能太把自己当回事。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">谦虚、低调、内敛,有度,会让一个人的胸怀更广博,格局更远大。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">时刻保持一颗谦逊的心,便是做人最大的底牌。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">月盈则亏,水满则溢。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">木秀于林,风必摧之;行高于人,众必非之。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">越是格局大的人,越懂得谦虚低调,以低求高,以谦自持,成就自己。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">古人云:“品现于事,心藏于身。”</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">真实的人品和格局,都会体现在遇事的反应和处理中。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body">人生于世,我们要面临无数的事情和选择,胸怀足够广博的时候,困难就少了,眼光足够高远的时候,天地就小了。</p><p style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;" mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong style="margin: 0px;text-align: left;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 0px;font-size: 17px;line-height: 1.75;font-weight: bold;">关键时刻,放远眼界,放大格局,我们的人生,就会到达不一样的境界。</strong></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="http://www.320924.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_riy" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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